CHILDREN: THE FUTURE

I do not always convey complete thoughts and at times people take what I say completely out context or misunderstand my comments without knowing my history or my intent. Most of the time it does not matter, but family does matter and for that reason I would like to make the following declarations.

Background: My universe has always revolved around family. I grew up in a large one and unlike some from large families who vow never to have a large family, it has always been my intention to follow my parent's example and plan on having as many children as my wife wanted and God consented to send. Consequently, I took seriously the idea of being a well-prepared father when I was young and excelled whenever possible so I would be prepared when it came time to have a family. Excelling in scouting, church, school, jobs, home, music and relationships prepared me well to become a good father. I didn't rush into relationships, but let things develop, as I was ready. How did I know? I left that up to God. He has never led me astray and has always prepared me for each step in my preparation. When it was time, I knew it was right. I did not delay. My wife was also well prepared, and has devoted her full time effort in the home for more than 20 years. One of my father's favorite quotes was that he believed in planned parenthood, that is... planning to be a parent, and he felt that his joy came from his children. He used to say he had a "quiver full."

Money was always a secondary concern, because I always had enough for my needs and jobs just came to me when I needed them that allowed my wife to stay home raising the children. She earned her degree, yet chose to put her time where she felt it was most important--at home. I also focused on doing what I considered the more lasting and important things. For me that was my family, my church, my leadership studies, my many jobs, and my service opportunities. I have never been rich, but when there was a need things just worked out. Now don't misunderstand, things have not been easy and at times we have needed help. But, help was always there. Yes, I do believe in Santa Clause.

Now more than ever I desire a place in corporate leadership to better support them and plan for retirement. I did not neglect a study of business. In fact I have studied and practiced principles of leadership in many forums, but the business degree and the management certificate I earned are not widely recognized and have not opened doors. I regret only that at times my children are bitter about money. I am proud of the responsibility they have learned as a result of my meager income, because it will bless them to use what they earn wisely.

My children for the most part have been wise beyond their years and see the world much differently from their peers. I pray for them that they will learn what they need and become the best parents they can be. I'm sure they will learn from my mistakes too. Most of my best lessons came from God as He taught me throughout my life. This blog is dedicated to sharing some of that insight and wisdom with them.